(Yourself, preferably.) We are programmed to resist the change. Change is hard, scary, uncomfortable and we have no idea what is on the other side, always people want to change their life but they spend years without achiving their goals because of changing anything.
Why does this happen to us
Start acting .When you wanna study medicine ,saying it in heart will not make you become a doctor but acting, enrolling to school , studying hard, focusing on lectures and doing research will help you to be a doctor . Sometimes people just say it in their heart and dream it always ,but spend years without achiving it .The dreams and positive thinking will become useless and nonsense if you do not work towards them.
Stoicism is an Ancient Greek philosophy, which teaches that peaceful life can be achieved, when you find the value in adversity, accept the things you cannot control and grow through your obstacles.We became professionals on complaining. We can quickly and accurately pinpoint all the things that we hate and all the ways in which life sucks. We can always fish out the things that we hate and pull out all the things that we hate in our heart but we can't bring in the things
that we want in future that will help us to be better in the world.
First thing you have to do ,when an idea of making change come to your mind is ;
Change your habit
Good habits are the pillars of happy and successful life. Habits give
us the sense of control. Habits are small daily actions, but their
effects are compounding. When everything appears to go wrong, try to change one habit.
Don't let bad habit and negative behavior destroy your plan
Create it!!!
“What can I create out of this situation?” is another one. Start
thinking creatively about your problems.
Steve Chandler said that" No’ is not an answer, but the question. ‘No’ is the way for Universe to ask you: “Can’t you be a bit more creative than that?”
There is always a solution.You must believe that every problems have its solution , solutions are created before problems , you just need to act and find it.Do not forget if there is an problem there is opportunity.Thomas Edison famously said, "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."Most people spend their lives in desperation. They do the things that are absolutely necessary in their lives and avoid the things that require even a little bit extra effort.They do only the minimum amount of work in their jobs, spend only the minimum amount of effort in their love lives, and spend almost no time on their future plans.Work for your future it is in your hand ,now time is going wake up from this daydream.
Change your habit
Good habits are the pillars of happy and successful life. Habits give
us the sense of control. Habits are small daily actions, but their
effects are compounding. When everything appears to go wrong, try to change one habit.
Don't let bad habit and negative behavior destroy your plan
Create it!!!
“What can I create out of this situation?” is another one. Start
thinking creatively about your problems.
Steve Chandler said that" No’ is not an answer, but the question. ‘No’ is the way for Universe to ask you: “Can’t you be a bit more creative than that?”
There is always a solution.You must believe that every problems have its solution , solutions are created before problems , you just need to act and find it.Do not forget if there is an problem there is opportunity.Thomas Edison famously said, "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."Most people spend their lives in desperation. They do the things that are absolutely necessary in their lives and avoid the things that require even a little bit extra effort.They do only the minimum amount of work in their jobs, spend only the minimum amount of effort in their love lives, and spend almost no time on their future plans.Work for your future it is in your hand ,now time is going wake up from this daydream.
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